Friday, December 31, 2010

Snowstorm 2010

We received about 24 inches of snow here in Brooklyn on Dec. 26 and Dec. 27. It was a mess. Our street wasn't plowed until 5 p.m. Tuesday - about 36 hours after the snow stopped falling. Cars, plows, UPS trucks, emergency vehicles - they were all stuck in the snow in our neighborhood, causing chaos and frustration for many.

My parents were planning to leave on Tuesday but delayed their departure a day because the van was stuck in snow and the roads weren't plowed. They did make it out Wednesday morning and are now home.

Dave did manage to get to work those days via the subway but with some delays. Sam seemed to enjoy it all....

Photos: Snowstorm 2010

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Lots of photos


Photos from Christmas and the last few weeks: Christmas Season

Monday, December 20, 2010

In case you were wondering...

We've had a few requests for explanation on Henry's middle name.

Dwyer is the maiden name of Dave's maternal grandma, Helen Monico. She died in May, and we wanted to honor her. Also, Helen's birthday was Dec. 2 -- Henry was born Dec. 1.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Sam Meets Santa


Having kids is a bittersweet ride. The sweetness has nothing to do with us and is solely derived from how perfectly precious they are. The bitter part is, shall we say, the x-factor -- the unpredictability. Kids can get you into trouble, and you have no idea how or when or why.

But our kids have yet to get us into big trouble, knock on wood. So we decided to test the fates on Saturday with a trip to St. Anselm Catholic Church's Winter Wonderland expo. With a toddler nearing his terrible twos and an infant with endless needs to be met, this was sure to be a challenge.

And yet, somehow, the fates smiled on us. Despite the chaos and the lines and the stairs and $5 they charged us per person -- even for little Henry -- we made it through with souls and holiday cheer still in tact.

Of course, the biggest risk was Sam's reaction to sitting on Santa's lap. He's not a fan of sitting on strange objects to begin with, let alone a strange man with a boisterous personality and loud clothing.

I won't say Sam enjoyed it. For the whole short time on the jolly man's lap, Sam stuck to that deer-in-the-headlights look, perhaps wondering what he did wrong to deserve this punishment.

But at least he didn't cry.

Check out the video below. It's also included in our roundup of pictures from the event. The last series of photos is of Sam and Grandpa playing with the football he won for surviving the ordeal.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

One week later...

Henry is one week old and is a very content, happy baby, so far. He sleeps and eats well. Dare I say, but I think I am getting a little more sleep now than in my final insomnia-hazed weeks of pregnancy.

I want to share Henry's birth story to document it on this blog and to share the tale with those who have not heard it.

I woke up around 3 a.m. on Dec. 1 with what I thought was either Braxton Hicks or gas. I had been having BR contractions for a few weeks. I got up and walked around, thinking they would go away. When they didn't, I woke up Dave.

As the contractions got stronger, I realized quickly that it was go time. But what about Sam....

My dad was set to arrive on that Wednesday afternoon to help with Sam. We had it all planned out -- he would arrive more than a week before I was due to help me out and be there to care for Sam when I went into labor. We were counting down the days to his arrival, for with it would bring peace of mind on what we'd do with Sam while at the hospital. My dad set out driving from Wisconsin on that Tuesday and was at a hotel in Ohio when Henry decided to make his arrival.

Thankfully, we had a back-up plan. Our downstairs neighbor and landlord helped us out. Her mom, who visits for several months in the winter from Croatia, was willing to watch Sam in our apartment.

Dave woke them up sometime around 4:30 a.m. and explained the situation. It was hard to leave Sam, but then again, I was in pain, so I just wanted to get to the hospital.

We called a car service, which arrived promptly. We arrived at the hospital around 5 a.m. Henry was born at 7:20 a.m. It was a natural delivery with no epidural.

(There was a moment there during the delivery when Dave had to sit down, drink some juice and rest a little. He was feeling faint. I don't think it was because of the actual delivery. He was just hungry and very tired. He doesn't get home from work until midnight and I woke him up around 3:30 a.m....)

During this time, my dad was driving through snow, wind and rain to get to our apartment. I had called him right before we left for the hospital, and he decided to get up and start the final leg of the trip.

After Henry and I were situated in our hospital room, Dave left the hospital late morning to relieve our sitter and wait for my dad. My dad finally arrived at 1:30 p.m. after a delay getting across the Verrazano-Narrows bridge. The wind was so bad that day that trucks weren't being allowed to cross, creating a traffic jam of trucks attempting to turn around.

After the long and stressful drive, he made it and Dave came back to the hospital.

As I think back on it now, it makes me smile. Henry was a surprise for us from the beginning and so was his arrival.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Finally, Some Photos.

Henry arrived home on Friday and met his big brother. Sam was apprehensive at first but seemed to understand that this is the baby that was in Mama's belly. Sam even offered Henry a sip of his juice. Since then, Sam has hugged Henry, pointed out where his nose and ears were, and he seems concerned when Henry cries.

Dave and I are getting little sleep, but Grandpa John has been a huge help with Sam, taking him on walks and entertaining him while we readjust to life with a newborn.

There is lots more to write, but Henry is hungry.
Here is a link to some photos:
Henry

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Meet Henry

Henry Dwyer Paulsen
Dec. 1, 2010
8 lbs 6 oz
22 inches
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