Tuesday, December 31, 2013

A Year in Review

In staying true to our whirlwind style, 2013 kept us all on our toes. As we reflect on this year, we're simply amazed by all of the change we've endured and, in turn, proud of how we've all grown from it. 

Our little Jonah B. arrived on Feb. 18, meeting his big brothers for the first time a few days later. With help from Grandma Barb and good friend, Cristina, we started our family-of-five life without too much fanfare.

However, Dave's work had been draining him for sometime. In hopes of finding something better, he had been applying to multiple jobs both in and outside of New York for countless months. And finally, in March, the Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel job appeared. After phone interviews and an in-person interview in April, Dave was offered the job of breaking news editor. He started at his new job in mid-May.

It was bittersweet to say goodbye to New York, leaving behind such good friends, a wonderful church community and a somewhat close proximity to Grandma Barb and Great-Grandpa Monico. It also was hard to say goodbye to a city that we all had fallen in love with - despite its challenges. But the promise of a home with a yard and our very own washer and dryer - not to mention a return to Liz's home state where family and longtime friends would be nearby - beckoned after years of city life without these things.

With help from a great Realtor, we found a home rather quickly in Wauwatosa - a western suburb of Milwaukee. We chose the community for its somewhat urban feel, top-notch schools and affordable home prices.

Liz and the boys stayed in Platteville with Papa and Grandma Debbie for seven weeks, however, before closing on our new home and moving in at the beginning of July. Dave stayed in a hotel in Milwaukee, traveling back and forth on the weekends. 

Sam started 4-year-old kindergarten in the fall. He loves learning his letters and numbers, drawing and coloring and our frequent playroom dance parties. He also has told us that he'd like to learn how to play the violin.

Henry, whose German name means 'ruler of the home,' has been doing just that. He has challenged us with his 2-year-old ways this year, but his sweet and loving demeanor always prevails. He started a half-day preschool program three days a week. His teachers describe him and a "quiet, mild-mannered" boy - the opposite of his behavior at home.

Little Jonah has been nothing but a joy, enduring all of this change with a smile. He loves watching his brothers play and recently started getting into their toys, tearing apart train track and laughing when Sam and Henry get mad.

Now, nearly six months into our relocation, we've started to really settle in here in Wauwatosa. Dave's job is challenging and fulfilling. We've been attending Trinity Episcopal Church, where we've found a welcoming community with great outreach and education programs. And we've seen Papa and Grandma Debbie more in the past six months than we had the entire time in New York. We've also enjoyed many more visits with Aunt Anne, Uncle David and Aunt Sue.

But in keeping with the Paulsen style, 2014 will likely prove to be full of more adventure. After more than 4 years of being a stay-at-home mom, Liz is returning to the workforce in January as an online producer for metroparentmagazine.com - a niche publication of the Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel. Obviously, this means much change for the boys, who will start attending a daycare part time.

A huge thank you to all those who have helped us through this year!

Christmas 2013

We had a great Christmas, with Santa being very generous to the boys.

We hosted a Putnam Christmas on Monday, Dec. 23 with Mom, Dad, Nathan, Kyle, Aunt Sue, Aunt Anne and Uncle David. We ate at an old-school German restaurant called Mader's. It was near the Journal Sentinel, so Dave was able to join us.

Mom, Dad and the uncles took Sam and Henry with them back to Platteville. Dave worked Tuesday while Jonah and I packed. Poor little Jonah was sick the whole week with a cold and fever. Dave, Jonah and I reached Platteville on Tuesday evening just in time for an hors d'oeurves dinner prepared by the uncles and a surprise visit by Marcia and Laura Buchs.

Sam and Henry were the last ones up on Christmas morning.....

Susie, Tony and Michael joined us on Christmas Day for a big feast and lots of play with the new train set.

Enjoy the photos: Christmas 2013

Friday, December 13, 2013

Sam's 4K holiday concert

Sam and all of the other 4k students performed a holiday concert Thursday afternoon. They sang 'Jingle Bells,' 'Winter Hokey Pokey,' and 'Ring, Ring, Ring the Bells.' In the video below, Sam is on the top row, second one in. He's wearing a white sweater. In order to get any video, I sat on the floor in front with Henry and Jonah in tow. I wish I could have gotten better video, but it is what it is. And I'm happy to report that Sam sang along - unlike his Vacation Bible School performance in August.

Enjoy the video: Sam's concert

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

SNOW!

We had our first snowfall yesterday in Tosa. The boys were super excited! Sam declined a trip to Starbucks for a treat so he could go home and play outside. Just right now, he told me he didn't want to watch cartoons - he wants to play outside.

Here are the boys on the sled about to go down the tiny hill in our backyard. And as you can see, we got just enough snow to lightly cover the ground. The boys are desperate for it to snow more. Enjoy the photos and video: First Snowfall


Sunday, November 10, 2013

Trainfest!

At the suggestion of a friend, we took the boys to Trainfest - "America's Largest Operating Model Railroad Show." Needless to say, Sam and Henry love it - and we had a hard time with them when it was time to leave. Held at the Expo building on the State Fair Grounds, the event was huge, filled with vendors and train enthusiasts clubs displaying their models. Sam, especially, was engrossed in all of the displays. He begged us to buy him "remote controlled train." Maybe Santa will buy it..... PHOTOS: Trainfest 2013

Friday, November 1, 2013

Halloween at Roosevelt Elementary

Sam celebrated Halloween with a party at his school. After making a monster craft, playing pin the wings on the bat, creating a treat bag and reading a Halloween story, the students marched in a costume parade with the help of some of the Wauwatosa East High School marching band. The original plan was to parade around the outside of the school, but rain forced the festivities inside. I was a parent volunteer in Sam's classroom for the afternoon and had a blast.

Mr. Sperl's afternoon junior kindergarten class:


Here is a link to a video of the parade: Costume Parade (Sam's teacher, Mr Sperl, is the one dressed as a yellow crayon.)

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Trick or Treat


We've had an adventurous last two days, ending with a candy overload.

On Friday, we carved pumpkins. Sam and Henry insisted on scary pumpkins. They didn't really want to touch the insides of them, however. Maybe next year.

On Saturday, we drove to Sullivan to visit Anne and Neal. After lunch at a super yummy Mexican restaurant, we went for a bike ride on the Glacial Drumlin Trail, which goes by Anne and Neal's house. We rode about two miles.

Saturday was also trick-or-treat night in our neighborhood - it's organized by the neighborhood association. Jonah, who was dressed as a bumble bee, and I stayed at the house to hand out candy while Dave took Sam - a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle - and Henry - Brewster, a train from Chuggingtons - out to all the houses. (By the way, Sam said he didn't want to wear his turtle mask for fear he would scare people.) Most of our neighbors were outside, chatting and many of them had bonfires. It was a blast, and the boys came home with tons of candy. (Anyone want some?!)

Sam's class will be celebrating Halloween on the actual day with a party and costume parade, so there will be more pictures of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle coming later in the week.

Enjoy the photos: Halloween

Friday, October 25, 2013

Monday, October 21, 2013

October

We've had an eventful few weeks, enjoying the cool, autumn weather. Sam visited a pumpkin patch with his class last week. Although many parents traveled with their students, I wasn't able to go with Jonah and Henry in tow. But Sam was paired with a classmate and his mom. Despite some rain, he had a great time, riding on a school bus and picking out a pumpkin.

As some of you probably saw on Facebook, I've been working with Sam on his letters, which you can see in the photos. I feel he really is getting it, and it seems like he really wants to learn. Photos: October

We've made a push to potty train Henry in the past week. It's going OK. He likes to sing while sitting on the potty. In the video from the October gallery linked above, he is singing: "Waiting for the poopy. Waiting for mommy."

Dave and I celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary on the 13th. Sam and Henry spent a few days in Platteville while Dave and I enjoyed the few days with just Jonah. Sarah Wang came that Saturday to stay with Jonah while Dave and I went to a restaurant. Photos: Fall Fun

Monday, October 7, 2013

UWP Homecoming


The boys and I drove to Platteville on Saturday to take in UWP's homecoming festivities. We arrived in time for the annual parade. The boys collected quite the loot of candy. We then attended an alumni luncheon (my parents are alum).

In the afternoon, former college dining service colleagues came to my parents house for a reunion of sorts. The Caseys were in attendence as Mary and Sarah both worked at Glenview.

The boys had a blast at Papa and Grandma Debbie's house. However, Sam was disappointed that we didn't go to Smith Park or Piggly Wiggly....

Photos: 2013 UWP Homecoming

Sunday, September 29, 2013

Harvest Fair

The boys and I went over to the State Fairgrounds today for the Harvest Fair. We decorated cookies, rode on some rides and bought pumpkins. Harvest Fair photos

Saturday, September 28, 2013

One small step for Sam ... one giant leap for Samkind


We don't mean to brag, but Sam did awesome (to use his new favorite word) in his school's fun run fundraiser. His grade's average last year was 13 laps, and he ran 15. It was a great start in running, and maybe we can get him more involved in kids races outside of school in the future. Henry, too, is looking forward to the day he can participate.

Fun Run 2013

Monday, September 23, 2013

Back to Brooklyn

Jonah and I flew to Brooklyn on Thursday for a long weekend. The main reason for the trip was so I could attend the Christ Church Bay Ridge's 160th Anniversary dinner/dance celebration on Saturday. I was being honored as churchperson of the year.

But it was also a time to catch up with all of the wonderful people we tearfully had to say goodbye to about four months ago. Jonah and I stayed at Cristina's house and were fortunate to see many of my mama friends and church friends.

Enjoy the photos: New York Sept. 2013

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Chilli'n on the Avenue


East Tosa - our side of the hood in Wauwatosa - the hip side ;) - hosted the annual Chilli'n on the Avenue on Saturday. About five blocks of North Avenue was blocked to traffic for a party that included a chili cookoff, music, games and more food. About 15 or so vendors competed for the top chili. Many vendors ran out before we could try their chili, but we tasted six or so. I wasn't a fan of any of them because they were too spicy for my taste. Dave loved it. Henry loved it.

The boys were able to enjoy bouncy houses, pumpkin painting and a few slices of pizza from our new favorite spot - Cranky Al's - which also makes incredible donuts.

Enjoy the photos: Chilli'n on the Avenue

Saturday, September 7, 2013

TosaFest 5K

It wasn't pretty, but I managed to run the TosaFest 5K today. It was awful running weather -- 83 percent humidity. The runners were all sweating before we even started. Ugh. I did manage to do it at an 11-minute-mile pace. That's fast for me. Also, Sam and I got to ride a camel, as part of the petting zoo. Enjoy the videos below, and here's a link to just a few photos. TOSAFEST

UPDATE: Official race results show that I ran at an 10:36 pace. 516 people ran the race. I placed 386.



Friday, September 6, 2013

Henry's preschool

Henry started a preschool program on Wednesday. He's attending Children's Workshop - a Montessori preschool here in Wauwatosa. He will be going three days a week - Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday - in the afternoon for about three hours. (Yes, that means I will just have Jonah for three afternoons a week!)

I was nervous for Henry's first day, dreading a crying, screaming boy at drop off. But he grabbed his bag from the car and headed into the school with one of his teachers - never looked back. When I picked him up, he was so excited. He said there are so many kids and toys at his school. I'm hoping this program will help him grow in independence and help him find his own likes/dislikes different from Sam. Here is a photo from his first day.

1st day photo

Sam's 4K teacher, Mr. Sperl, took pictures of all of the students on their first day. Here is the one of Sam. This pose is something he does when he is nervous. He's so cute, though!

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Last days of summer

I'm working backwards here. But Sam's first day of 4K (see below) was foremost on my mind. So to step back, Labor Day Weekend was an exciting one for us - and especially Sam and Henry. Their friend Jack from Brooklyn flew to see us. Jack, his parents and the five of us Paulsens stayed at The Great Wolf Lodge in the Wisconsin Dells from Thursday to Saturday. We stayed in a suite where the boys shared a room with bunk beds. Needless to say, they had a blast - Jonah, too! Sam and Henry did go on lots of the waterslides. It was good to see Jack, Cristina and Seth. It was also strange to have them here in Wisconsin. I did a poor job of taking pictures, so here are a few from me but most from Cristina.











Sam's first day of 4K

Sam started 4-year-old kindergarten today. He goes in the afternoon for about three hours and is in Mr. Sperl's class at Roosevelt Elementary. (This is the school he will be attending through the 5th grade.) There are about 15 or so kids in his class. He is excited but said he's nervous about making friends. Here are some pictures from his first day. Sam - 4K


Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Vacation Bible School


Sam attended Vacation Bible School last week at Trinity Episcopal Church - the church we've been attending here in Wauwatosa. He had a blast! He didn't want to stay on the first day, but we couldn't get there fast enough the days that followed. Sam would come home and talk about strength, courage and God. I was a proud mama. On Friday - the last day - the kids (about 30 or so) did a performance. Unfortunately, Jonah, Dave and I couldn't attend because we were traveling to a wedding in Minneapolis. Papa and Grandma Debbie, however, took Henry to see the show. But our poor Sammy had stage fright -- yep, that's him in the video Papa took (check out the link) just standing there with his hands in his pockets. Oh, my Sammy.

Vacation Bible School - VIDEO
Vacation Bible School - PHOTOS

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Jonah's first ride in a swing

It's a short video because a mini-fight ensued between Sam and Henry over who would push Jonah. They have been fighting a lot over Jonah recently. Both of them love him so much. If only they felt the same about each other.....

Jonah sits on his own!



'Tosa Night Out

Wauwatosa participates in the annual National Night Out - get-to-know your community, get involved, prevent crimes thing. We attended the 'Tosa Night Out on Tuesday. The evening included a train ride, a chance to spray a "burning building" with a real fire hose, games, food, music and - most important - bouncy castles. Sam didn't want to do the fire hose, but Henry did. It was hard to get a good photo, though, because he wouldn't let go of me.







Monday, August 5, 2013

Sam's 4th Birthday

Sam turned 4 on Saturday. 4! How did the time go by so fast? Papa and Grandma Debbie came to help celebrate. Sam said he didn't want a party, but he did want to go to Chuck E. Cheese. So, we went there for lunch and to play games. We then headed back to the house for cake, ice cream and presents. For supper, we grilled brats and hotdogs. I think he had a great time! Photos: Sam's 4th Birthday



Wisconsin State Fair

On Friday (after Jonah ate his first bite of food), we headed to the Wisconsin State Fair. I actually had never been to this fair and neither had Dave or the boys. We had lots of fun and ate lots of food, including corn dogs, a cream puff and fried pickles. The highlight was a ride on the giant slide. Photos: State Fair 2013
Video of Dave and Henry going down the slide:

Sam rides his bike

Here is video from more than two weeks ago of when Sam first started riding his "big boy" bike. He has since learned how to stop and start on his own.

Jonah's first taste of food

Aug. 2, 2013

Friday, August 2, 2013

More Cabin Photos


Here is a link to more photos from Joy's cabin weekend, including a few attempts at a family photo. These are photos Joy and/or her boyfriend, Matt, took. CABIN 2013

It's August?!

I have a backlog of photos and fun events to share. And with Sam's birthday tomorrow, I had to get all of this up now.

July has really gone fast. How is it August already? The boys and I spend most of our days hopping from one playground in Wauwatosa to another. This week alone we visited 6 different ones. The weather has been on the cool side, so that helps. We usually spend most of our days outside. We also are frequent visitors of the Wauwatosa Public Library.

The big news for Sam is that he now can ride a two-wheeled bike - no training wheels. We started him on a balance bike around age 2 or 2 1/2. That helped him learn to balance (there are no pedals on a balance bike.) I bought a Thomas the Train bike for him at a garage sale. It came with training wheels. He wanted to leave them on, but he became frustrated because he couldn't go fast. So, Dave took the wheels off, and with only a few rides with Dave holding onto the bike, he was off.

Also, Sam attended a two-week, mini-school session in July for those entering 4-year-old kindergarten. It was free and just for a couple hours each morning. He was able to get acclimated to his school and meet some kids his age. We've had a playdate with one of his classmates. It was nice for me, too, to talk to another mom. I certainly miss my mom friends in Brooklyn.

Henry has grown a lot this summer - both in height and in personality. He's starting to come into his own, I think. We are still struggling with tantrums, but my Henry is one strong-willed little boy.

Jonah, too, is starting to show a personality. He LOVES his brothers. He laughs and smiles all of the time when they are around. Sam, especially, has shown an interest in helping Jonah. The other day he said: "Jonah, I am going to teach you to walk, talk and read."

Today, Aug. 2, Jonah took his first bites of "real" food. I gave him some brown rice cereal mixed with breastmilk. He loved it!

Our biggest adventure in July was a trip to northern Minnesota to my friend Joy's cabin. I've been going to Joy's cabin since 2001 (though it's been tough to go since having kids.) This was the first time many of the other cabin-goers met the boys. It was an 8-hour drive but well worth the trip. Despite the wind and cooler temps, the boys had a blast.

Enjoy the pictures: July 2013 (I do have video of Sam riding his bike and of Jonah eating for the first time. I hope to process that soon.)

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Photos

Here is a link to some photos from the past week - the first week at our new house. NEW HOUSE

Also, here is a recent photo of Jonah (age 4.5 months) and a photo of Henry when he was almost 4 months.



Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Totally 'Tosa

We are in our new home! And I'm finally able to post something here because we just got our internet service installed today. (We also are the proud owners of a TV -- we haven't had one since Sept. of 2009!)

Jonah and I arrived in Wauwatosa on the 4th of July. Our new washer/dryer were delivered on Friday morning, and the moving van arrived on Friday afternoon. The first two items off the truck were NOT ours. Needless to say, I was freaked for a bit that they movers brought the wrong stuff. Alas, it all went fine.

Papa and Grandma Debbie brought Sam and Henry up on Saturday. They love the house, the huge backyard and the park only a block away. We've met a few of the neighbors, including a family across the street with children the same age as ours. In fact, Sam will be in 4K with the oldest girl starting this fall.

We still have lots to unpack. And I have lots of photos to upload here, including a photo of the scrumptious cake the boys picked out for Dave's birthday today . I also plan to share a few photos my friend Joy took of Jonah. So much to do, so little time!

Saturday, June 29, 2013

Mining Museum

We ventured to the Rollo Jamison Muesum and the Mining Musuem in Platteville today. The boys learned all about "old stuff" and the history of lead mining in Platteville. We toured the Rollo Jamison Museum, which is essentially one man's collection of stuff from the early 20th Century. We then all went down into the mine, which the boys enjoyed - though they complained about the coldness. The grand finale was a small train ride around the grounds of the mine. Enjoy the photos.

Jonah wasn't so sure about the train ride.

Picking out helmets before going down the 90 stairs into the mine.





We are homeowners!

Jonah and I traveled to Wauwatosa on Thursday in preparation for the closing on our home Friday. We met up with Dave at the house for a walk through. Everything looked really good and really clean. At 8 a.m. Friday, the three of us went to the closing, briefly met the sellers and signed all the paperwork. Then, we got the keys! We spent a few hours on Friday cleaning, but it was rather spotless. Dave will be staying at the house for the next week, and the rest of us are not moving in until July 5. That's the earliest the movers could bring all of our stuff.

Saturday, June 22, 2013

From trains to riverboats

We've had an eventful week, starting with a trip on Tuesday to Fennimore to visit a small train museum and a toy museum. Fennimore is also home to Igor, a large, cheese-eating mouse. He's the mascot for a cheese company.




Jonah also turned 4 months on Tuesday. Here is a photo of my happy, happy boy:


On Thursday, we had a visit from the Caseys. We managed to get a photo of all the kids after a trip to the pool and a pizza supper. Madelyn is now 6 and Emma is 3.


And today we traveled to Dubuque to visit the National Mississippi River Museum and Aquarium.





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